What could you do this week to help strengthen the faith of someone who is faltering?
by Mary Sellars MalloyWe often refer to today’s Gospel (John 20:1-9) as the story of “doubting Thomas”—the Apostle who wouldn’t believe Jesus was resurrected from the dead unless he saw the nail marks in Jesus’ hands and put his hand in Jesus’ side. When I think of those who are faltering in their faith, I think of Thomas—by all other accounts a faithful disciple, a faithful follower of Jesus, who just experienced doubt and needed visible proof.
This is the story of most disciples of Jesus, myself included. Especially as we continue to live amidst the uncertainties of the coronavirus pandemic, we are all experiencing moments when we feel alone, afraid, unsure, tired, and doubtful. We falter. And we, like Thomas, just need a visible sign of Jesus’ existence in our lives, of God’s love for us. Think about those times in your life. In the past, what calmed your fears, gave you strength, and reassured you that Jesus was indeed alive and working in your life to bring things together for your good? These are the very things you can do to help others remain strong in faith and hope right now.
This week, offer to those who are faltering what you have been given—words of encouragement, a card, a call, and if restrictions in your area have been lifted, an invitation to lunch, an invitation to church, and prayer. In all your conversations, speak words of peace. In the spirit of Saint Faustina, extend mercy. And, above all, remember that you are the visible proof of God’s existence in the world. Let all you say and do reflect your identity as a daughter or son of God, made in God’s image, and deeply loved.
Mary Sellars Malloy has over forty years’ experience as a Catholic educator and lay minister. She is a frequent workshop presenter on the topics of prayer, liturgy, spirituality, the Sacraments, and the RCIA. In addition, Mary leads retreats and parish missions throughout the country. Her goal is to encourage Catholics of all ages to appreciate and to live their Catholic faith.